(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
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What matters most to me in life right now?
What do you want to change in how you relate to yourself or others?
What kinds of people are you typically drawn to in relationships?
What does “being lovable” mean to you? Do you believe you are lovable as you are?
What do you expect from others emotionally—and where do those expectations come from?
When do you feel like you need someone else to “rescue” you? What emotions come up in those moments?
What have you learned about yourself through past emotional pain?
What labels (e.g., “the smart one,” “the troublemaker”) were placed on you growing up?
What do you criticize most in others—and could that reflect something within you?
Do you feel like you always have to be on guard? What are you protecting yourself from?
What does your Punitive Parent say to you? How can you challenge that voice?
What do you fear people might discover about you?
How do you think your early relationships influence your current ones?
What does your body feel like when you’re reminded of the trauma?
What do you fear would happen if you stopped trying to please others?
How did your caregivers express (or withhold) love, anger, or approval?
What can you do today to give your inner child the care they missed?
How has your understanding of your own mind changed over time?
What unmet emotional needs did you have as a child?
What kind of person do I want to be in 5 years?
Do you notice any patterns in how you cope with stress or disappointment?
Do you tend to overcompensate in certain areas of life? What are you trying to prove or protect?
What do I need right now to feel more grounded?
What does emotional maturity look like for you?
What does avoidance look like in your life? What are you avoiding feeling?
How do you know when you’re “in your head” versus “in your feelings”?
What would it mean to fully accept all parts of yourself?
What parts of yourself do you feel proud of? Which parts do you struggle to accept?
What do you think someone close to you needs emotionally right now?
What qualities do you want your Healthy Adult to have?
What would healing look like for you?
What situations tend to trigger strong emotional reactions in you?
When do you feel like you're “too much” or “not enough” for others?
Do you notice any repeating patterns in your romantic or platonic relationships?
What kind of adult would your younger self have felt safe with?
When was the last time you felt emotionally disconnected from someone? What thoughts or memories came up?
Were there any unspoken rules or expectations in your household growing up?
What internal voices or messages do you hear when you're feeling vulnerable?
When do I find it hardest to understand myself?
When was a time I misunderstood someone? What did I learn?
When do I catch myself using sarcasm, denial, or avoidance? What am I protecting myself from?
Do you struggle with setting boundaries? Describe a recent time when this was difficult.
How do you typically respond to conflict or rejection?
How did your family handle conflict, and how do you handle it now?
What parts of your identity or life do you want to reclaim?
When do you become overly self-critical? What would a more compassionate voice say instead?
What are your earliest memories of your parents or caregivers?
What do I long for emotionally that I rarely express?
