(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.
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I-Unclear about my own needs or limits
I-Blocked someone who disrespected your boundaries
B-I have a Misunderstanding what healthy boundaries look like.
B-Turned off phone notifications during personal time
O-boundaries are selfish
N-took a break at work away from work station
N-Chose not to answer a personal question
G-Past trauma affects trust and safety in relationships.
B-Refused to share a password
I-I find it hard to say no
O-I sometimes feel undeserving of respect.
N-I Perceive boundary-setting as selfish or rude
N-Asked someone to lower their voice
O-Talked to my doctor about a medication change
O-Ask for space or time alone when feeling emotionally drained
G-Boundaries make people seem difficult or uncooperative
B-Asked someone not to hug you
I-Unfollowed or muted someone online
G-Prioritizing time for hobbies or activities that bring joy
B-Took a mental health day
G-not sacrificing rest for other activities.
I-Set rules around your personal space
N-Asked for help instead of overextending
B-Said “I’m not comfortable talking about that”
I-I fear confrontation
O-I experience Guilt or shame about prioritizing myself
O-Avoiding unhealthy coping mechanisms
G-Maintain personal time and space outside of the relationship