Name aholidayexpectationyou want toreleaseName a holidaycomfort food ordrink thatmakes you feelgrounded.Describe aphysicalfeeling whenyou need aboundaryName a self-care activityyou can useas aboundaryPractice aboundary-setting phraseusing “I”statements.Give aholidayboundaryaffirmationShare amoment youheld aboundary inthe pastShare ascript fordeclining aninvitationwithout guilt.Script forredirecting astressfulconversationShare a copingskill you usebeforestressfulgatheringsIdentify atimeboundary forthe holidays.Namesomeoneyou cancheck in withfor supportPracticesaying 'No,thank you'assertivelyDiscuss anexample of aboundarysaid calmlybut firmly.Role-play a10-secondhealthyboundarysettingIdentify analcohol/substanceboundary youneedShare agroundingexercise thathelps youstay centeredName onevalue you wantto protect thisholidayseason.Identify somethingyou normally feelpressured to doduring the holidays—but this year,you are choosingNOT to do it.Reframea guilt-basedthoughtIdentify somethingyou want to allowyourself to do (orNOT do) withoutguilt, pressure, orshame.Identify asituation whereyou usually say“yes” but wantto say “no.”Identify asign yourboundary isbeingcrossedHoliday ritualyou want tosimplify orskipShare alight/funnyfamilyboundarymomentShare aholidayactivity thatgenuinelybrings you joyDo a 10-secondstretch orbreathingexercise.Name atopic youprefer not todiscuss withfamilyShare aboundaryaboutmaterialName aholidayexpectationyou want toreleaseName a holidaycomfort food ordrink thatmakes you feelgrounded.Describe aphysicalfeeling whenyou need aboundaryName a self-care activityyou can useas aboundaryPractice aboundary-setting phraseusing “I”statements.Give aholidayboundaryaffirmationShare amoment youheld aboundary inthe pastShare ascript fordeclining aninvitationwithout guilt.Script forredirecting astressfulconversationShare a copingskill you usebeforestressfulgatheringsIdentify atimeboundary forthe holidays.Namesomeoneyou cancheck in withfor supportPracticesaying 'No,thank you'assertivelyDiscuss anexample of aboundarysaid calmlybut firmly.Role-play a10-secondhealthyboundarysettingIdentify analcohol/substanceboundary youneedShare agroundingexercise thathelps youstay centeredName onevalue you wantto protect thisholidayseason.Identify somethingyou normally feelpressured to doduring the holidays—but this year,you are choosingNOT to do it.Reframea guilt-basedthoughtIdentify somethingyou want to allowyourself to do (orNOT do) withoutguilt, pressure, orshame.Identify asituation whereyou usually say“yes” but wantto say “no.”Identify asign yourboundary isbeingcrossedHoliday ritualyou want tosimplify orskipShare alight/funnyfamilyboundarymomentShare aholidayactivity thatgenuinelybrings you joyDo a 10-secondstretch orbreathingexercise.Name atopic youprefer not todiscuss withfamilyShare aboundaryaboutmaterial

Holiday Boundary Setting - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Name a holiday expectation you want to release
  2. Name a holiday comfort food or drink that makes you feel grounded.
  3. Describe a physical feeling when you need a boundary
  4. Name a self-care activity you can use as a boundary
  5. Practice a boundary-setting phrase using “I” statements.
  6. Give a holiday boundary affirmation
  7. Share a moment you held a boundary in the past
  8. Share a script for declining an invitation without guilt.
  9. Script for redirecting a stressful conversation
  10. Share a coping skill you use before stressful gatherings
  11. Identify a time boundary for the holidays.
  12. Name someone you can check in with for support
  13. Practice saying 'No, thank you' assertively
  14. Discuss an example of a boundary said calmly but firmly.
  15. Role-play a 10-second healthy boundary setting
  16. Identify an alcohol/substance boundary you need
  17. Share a grounding exercise that helps you stay centered
  18. Name one value you want to protect this holiday season.
  19. Identify something you normally feel pressured to do during the holidays—but this year, you are choosing NOT to do it.
  20. Reframe a guilt-based thought
  21. Identify something you want to allow yourself to do (or NOT do) without guilt, pressure, or shame.
  22. Identify a situation where you usually say “yes” but want to say “no.”
  23. Identify a sign your boundary is being crossed
  24. Holiday ritual you want to simplify or skip
  25. Share a light/funny family boundary moment
  26. Share a holiday activity that genuinely brings you joy
  27. Do a 10-second stretch or breathing exercise.
  28. Name a topic you prefer not to discuss with family
  29. Share a boundary about material