Clarify theproblemto solveReframechallenges FPexpressesabout the kidwith laggingskillsAsk: Whenwill wehave thePlan B?Plan: Whatsupports mightthe youth needduring the PlanB?DiscusseducatedguessesProvidereassuranceto the FPExplain: RCPCwill lead. FP’sjob is to listenwith curiosityand add inwhen promptedGive off“We gotthis!”vibesRemind: Theprocess buildsskills! We don’thave to finishthe Plan BExplainwhen youwill give FPa chance tojump inExplain: Whenwe collaborate,RCPC will askFP for input, butwill ask youthfor ideas firstClarifythe adultconcernRemind: We’re notgoing to focus onbehavioral responsesthat come up; we’regoing to stay focusedon our Plan BExplain: RCPCwill leadthrough litmustest questionswhen readyAsk: Is thereanything youwant me tolook out for?Redirectattempts tobring in Plan Aor conventionalwisdomPlan: Give theminstructions onwhat to do if theyhear things thatare upsetting orraise questionsExplain: Litmustest questionsare a good timeto bring up anyconcerns FPhasAsk: Whatwill we bedoing whileyou’re havingthe Plan B?Beempatheticwhenpreparingwith the FPAsk: Whatchallenges doyou think willcome up duringthe convo?Remind:We’re goingto follow theorder of the3 ingredientsExplain:RCPC willguide theconvoExplain:RCPC willinvite FP toshareconcernClarify theproblemto solveReframechallenges FPexpressesabout the kidwith laggingskillsAsk: Whenwill wehave thePlan B?Plan: Whatsupports mightthe youth needduring the PlanB?DiscusseducatedguessesProvidereassuranceto the FPExplain: RCPCwill lead. FP’sjob is to listenwith curiosityand add inwhen promptedGive off“We gotthis!”vibesRemind: Theprocess buildsskills! We don’thave to finishthe Plan BExplainwhen youwill give FPa chance tojump inExplain: Whenwe collaborate,RCPC will askFP for input, butwill ask youthfor ideas firstClarifythe adultconcernRemind: We’re notgoing to focus onbehavioral responsesthat come up; we’regoing to stay focusedon our Plan BExplain: RCPCwill leadthrough litmustest questionswhen readyAsk: Is thereanything youwant me tolook out for?Redirectattempts tobring in Plan Aor conventionalwisdomPlan: Give theminstructions onwhat to do if theyhear things thatare upsetting orraise questionsExplain: Litmustest questionsare a good timeto bring up anyconcerns FPhasAsk: Whatwill we bedoing whileyou’re havingthe Plan B?Beempatheticwhenpreparingwith the FPAsk: Whatchallenges doyou think willcome up duringthe convo?Remind:We’re goingto follow theorder of the3 ingredientsExplain:RCPC willguide theconvoExplain:RCPC willinvite FP toshareconcern

Preparing to Lead a Plan B with a Foster Parent - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Clarify the problem to solve
  2. Reframe challenges FP expresses about the kid with lagging skills
  3. Ask: When will we have the Plan B?
  4. Plan: What supports might the youth need during the Plan B?
  5. Discuss educated guesses
  6. Provide reassurance to the FP
  7. Explain: RCPC will lead. FP’s job is to listen with curiosity and add in when prompted
  8. Give off “We got this!” vibes
  9. Remind: The process builds skills! We don’t have to finish the Plan B
  10. Explain when you will give FP a chance to jump in
  11. Explain: When we collaborate, RCPC will ask FP for input, but will ask youth for ideas first
  12. Clarify the adult concern
  13. Remind: We’re not going to focus on behavioral responses that come up; we’re going to stay focused on our Plan B
  14. Explain: RCPC will lead through litmus test questions when ready
  15. Ask: Is there anything you want me to look out for?
  16. Redirect attempts to bring in Plan A or conventional wisdom
  17. Plan: Give them instructions on what to do if they hear things that are upsetting or raise questions
  18. Explain: Litmus test questions are a good time to bring up any concerns FP has
  19. Ask: What will we be doing while you’re having the Plan B?
  20. Be empathetic when preparing with the FP
  21. Ask: What challenges do you think will come up during the convo?
  22. Remind: We’re going to follow the order of the 3 ingredients
  23. Explain: RCPC will guide the convo
  24. Explain: RCPC will invite FP to share concern