Explain: RCPCwill leadthrough litmustest questionswhen readyRedirectattempts tobring in Plan Aor conventionalwisdomAsk: Whatwill we bedoing whileyou’re havingthe Plan B?Reframechallenges FPexpressesabout the kidwith laggingskillsAsk: Whatchallenges doyou think willcome up duringthe convo?Remind: We’re notgoing to focus onbehavioral responsesthat come up; we’regoing to stay focusedon our Plan BDiscusseducatedguessesRemind: Theprocess buildsskills! We don’thave to finishthe Plan BAsk: Is thereanything youwant me tolook out for?Remind:We’re goingto follow theorder of the3 ingredientsExplain:RCPC willguide theconvoExplain: Whenwe collaborate,RCPC will askFP for input, butwill ask youthfor ideas firstBeempatheticwhenpreparingwith the FPAsk: Whenwill wehave thePlan B?Clarifythe adultconcernProvidereassuranceto the FPGive off“We gotthis!”vibesClarify theproblemto solveExplain: RCPCwill lead. FP’sjob is to listenwith curiosityand add inwhen promptedPlan: Give theminstructions onwhat to do if theyhear things thatare upsetting orraise questionsExplain:RCPC willinvite FP toshareconcernExplain: Litmustest questionsare a good timeto bring up anyconcerns FPhasPlan: Whatsupports mightthe youth needduring the PlanB?Explainwhen youwill give FPa chance tojump inExplain: RCPCwill leadthrough litmustest questionswhen readyRedirectattempts tobring in Plan Aor conventionalwisdomAsk: Whatwill we bedoing whileyou’re havingthe Plan B?Reframechallenges FPexpressesabout the kidwith laggingskillsAsk: Whatchallenges doyou think willcome up duringthe convo?Remind: We’re notgoing to focus onbehavioral responsesthat come up; we’regoing to stay focusedon our Plan BDiscusseducatedguessesRemind: Theprocess buildsskills! We don’thave to finishthe Plan BAsk: Is thereanything youwant me tolook out for?Remind:We’re goingto follow theorder of the3 ingredientsExplain:RCPC willguide theconvoExplain: Whenwe collaborate,RCPC will askFP for input, butwill ask youthfor ideas firstBeempatheticwhenpreparingwith the FPAsk: Whenwill wehave thePlan B?Clarifythe adultconcernProvidereassuranceto the FPGive off“We gotthis!”vibesClarify theproblemto solveExplain: RCPCwill lead. FP’sjob is to listenwith curiosityand add inwhen promptedPlan: Give theminstructions onwhat to do if theyhear things thatare upsetting orraise questionsExplain:RCPC willinvite FP toshareconcernExplain: Litmustest questionsare a good timeto bring up anyconcerns FPhasPlan: Whatsupports mightthe youth needduring the PlanB?Explainwhen youwill give FPa chance tojump in

Preparing to Lead a Plan B with a Foster Parent - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Explain: RCPC will lead through litmus test questions when ready
  2. Redirect attempts to bring in Plan A or conventional wisdom
  3. Ask: What will we be doing while you’re having the Plan B?
  4. Reframe challenges FP expresses about the kid with lagging skills
  5. Ask: What challenges do you think will come up during the convo?
  6. Remind: We’re not going to focus on behavioral responses that come up; we’re going to stay focused on our Plan B
  7. Discuss educated guesses
  8. Remind: The process builds skills! We don’t have to finish the Plan B
  9. Ask: Is there anything you want me to look out for?
  10. Remind: We’re going to follow the order of the 3 ingredients
  11. Explain: RCPC will guide the convo
  12. Explain: When we collaborate, RCPC will ask FP for input, but will ask youth for ideas first
  13. Be empathetic when preparing with the FP
  14. Ask: When will we have the Plan B?
  15. Clarify the adult concern
  16. Provide reassurance to the FP
  17. Give off “We got this!” vibes
  18. Clarify the problem to solve
  19. Explain: RCPC will lead. FP’s job is to listen with curiosity and add in when prompted
  20. Plan: Give them instructions on what to do if they hear things that are upsetting or raise questions
  21. Explain: RCPC will invite FP to share concern
  22. Explain: Litmus test questions are a good time to bring up any concerns FP has
  23. Plan: What supports might the youth need during the Plan B?
  24. Explain when you will give FP a chance to jump in