DiscusseducatedguessesAsk: Is thereanything youwant me tolook out for?Give off“We gotthis!”vibesPlan: Whatsupports mightthe youth needduring the PlanB?Redirectattempts tobring in Plan Aor conventionalwisdomExplain: RCPCwill leadthrough litmustest questionswhen readyRemind: Theprocess buildsskills! We don’thave to finishthe Plan BExplain: Litmustest questionsare a good timeto bring up anyconcerns FPhasRemind: We’re notgoing to focus onbehavioral responsesthat come up; we’regoing to stay focusedon our Plan BExplainwhen youwill give FPa chance tojump inReframechallenges FPexpressesabout the kidwith laggingskillsPlan: Give theminstructions onwhat to do if theyhear things thatare upsetting orraise questionsExplain:RCPC willinvite FP toshareconcernAsk: Whatchallenges doyou think willcome up duringthe convo?Providereassuranceto the FPClarifythe adultconcernClarify theproblemto solveAsk: Whenwill wehave thePlan B?Remind:We’re goingto follow theorder of the3 ingredientsExplain: Whenwe collaborate,RCPC will askFP for input, butwill ask youthfor ideas firstBeempatheticwhenpreparingwith the FPExplain: RCPCwill lead. FP’sjob is to listenwith curiosityand add inwhen promptedAsk: Whatwill we bedoing whileyou’re havingthe Plan B?Explain:RCPC willguide theconvoDiscusseducatedguessesAsk: Is thereanything youwant me tolook out for?Give off“We gotthis!”vibesPlan: Whatsupports mightthe youth needduring the PlanB?Redirectattempts tobring in Plan Aor conventionalwisdomExplain: RCPCwill leadthrough litmustest questionswhen readyRemind: Theprocess buildsskills! We don’thave to finishthe Plan BExplain: Litmustest questionsare a good timeto bring up anyconcerns FPhasRemind: We’re notgoing to focus onbehavioral responsesthat come up; we’regoing to stay focusedon our Plan BExplainwhen youwill give FPa chance tojump inReframechallenges FPexpressesabout the kidwith laggingskillsPlan: Give theminstructions onwhat to do if theyhear things thatare upsetting orraise questionsExplain:RCPC willinvite FP toshareconcernAsk: Whatchallenges doyou think willcome up duringthe convo?Providereassuranceto the FPClarifythe adultconcernClarify theproblemto solveAsk: Whenwill wehave thePlan B?Remind:We’re goingto follow theorder of the3 ingredientsExplain: Whenwe collaborate,RCPC will askFP for input, butwill ask youthfor ideas firstBeempatheticwhenpreparingwith the FPExplain: RCPCwill lead. FP’sjob is to listenwith curiosityand add inwhen promptedAsk: Whatwill we bedoing whileyou’re havingthe Plan B?Explain:RCPC willguide theconvo

Preparing to Lead a Plan B with a Foster Parent - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Discuss educated guesses
  2. Ask: Is there anything you want me to look out for?
  3. Give off “We got this!” vibes
  4. Plan: What supports might the youth need during the Plan B?
  5. Redirect attempts to bring in Plan A or conventional wisdom
  6. Explain: RCPC will lead through litmus test questions when ready
  7. Remind: The process builds skills! We don’t have to finish the Plan B
  8. Explain: Litmus test questions are a good time to bring up any concerns FP has
  9. Remind: We’re not going to focus on behavioral responses that come up; we’re going to stay focused on our Plan B
  10. Explain when you will give FP a chance to jump in
  11. Reframe challenges FP expresses about the kid with lagging skills
  12. Plan: Give them instructions on what to do if they hear things that are upsetting or raise questions
  13. Explain: RCPC will invite FP to share concern
  14. Ask: What challenges do you think will come up during the convo?
  15. Provide reassurance to the FP
  16. Clarify the adult concern
  17. Clarify the problem to solve
  18. Ask: When will we have the Plan B?
  19. Remind: We’re going to follow the order of the 3 ingredients
  20. Explain: When we collaborate, RCPC will ask FP for input, but will ask youth for ideas first
  21. Be empathetic when preparing with the FP
  22. Explain: RCPC will lead. FP’s job is to listen with curiosity and add in when prompted
  23. Ask: What will we be doing while you’re having the Plan B?
  24. Explain: RCPC will guide the convo