Give off“We gotthis!”vibesRemind:We’re goingto follow theorder of the3 ingredientsAsk: Whatchallenges doyou think willcome up duringthe convo?Remind: Theprocess buildsskills! We don’thave to finishthe Plan BPlan: Whatsupports mightthe youth needduring the PlanB?Beempatheticwhenpreparingwith the FPAsk: Whenwill wehave thePlan B?DiscusseducatedguessesRedirectattempts tobring in Plan Aor conventionalwisdomClarifythe adultconcernProvidereassuranceto the FPAsk: Is thereanything youwant me tolook out for?Explain:RCPC willguide theconvoAsk: Whatwill we bedoing whileyou’re havingthe Plan B?Explainwhen youwill give FPa chance tojump inRemind: We’re notgoing to focus onbehavioral responsesthat come up; we’regoing to stay focusedon our Plan BExplain: RCPCwill leadthrough litmustest questionswhen readyExplain:RCPC willinvite FP toshareconcernReframechallenges FPexpressesabout the kidwith laggingskillsPlan: Give theminstructions onwhat to do if theyhear things thatare upsetting orraise questionsExplain: Whenwe collaborate,RCPC will askFP for input, butwill ask youthfor ideas firstExplain: RCPCwill lead. FP’sjob is to listenwith curiosityand add inwhen promptedClarify theproblemto solveExplain: Litmustest questionsare a good timeto bring up anyconcerns FPhasGive off“We gotthis!”vibesRemind:We’re goingto follow theorder of the3 ingredientsAsk: Whatchallenges doyou think willcome up duringthe convo?Remind: Theprocess buildsskills! We don’thave to finishthe Plan BPlan: Whatsupports mightthe youth needduring the PlanB?Beempatheticwhenpreparingwith the FPAsk: Whenwill wehave thePlan B?DiscusseducatedguessesRedirectattempts tobring in Plan Aor conventionalwisdomClarifythe adultconcernProvidereassuranceto the FPAsk: Is thereanything youwant me tolook out for?Explain:RCPC willguide theconvoAsk: Whatwill we bedoing whileyou’re havingthe Plan B?Explainwhen youwill give FPa chance tojump inRemind: We’re notgoing to focus onbehavioral responsesthat come up; we’regoing to stay focusedon our Plan BExplain: RCPCwill leadthrough litmustest questionswhen readyExplain:RCPC willinvite FP toshareconcernReframechallenges FPexpressesabout the kidwith laggingskillsPlan: Give theminstructions onwhat to do if theyhear things thatare upsetting orraise questionsExplain: Whenwe collaborate,RCPC will askFP for input, butwill ask youthfor ideas firstExplain: RCPCwill lead. FP’sjob is to listenwith curiosityand add inwhen promptedClarify theproblemto solveExplain: Litmustest questionsare a good timeto bring up anyconcerns FPhas

Preparing to Lead a Plan B with a Foster Parent - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Give off “We got this!” vibes
  2. Remind: We’re going to follow the order of the 3 ingredients
  3. Ask: What challenges do you think will come up during the convo?
  4. Remind: The process builds skills! We don’t have to finish the Plan B
  5. Plan: What supports might the youth need during the Plan B?
  6. Be empathetic when preparing with the FP
  7. Ask: When will we have the Plan B?
  8. Discuss educated guesses
  9. Redirect attempts to bring in Plan A or conventional wisdom
  10. Clarify the adult concern
  11. Provide reassurance to the FP
  12. Ask: Is there anything you want me to look out for?
  13. Explain: RCPC will guide the convo
  14. Ask: What will we be doing while you’re having the Plan B?
  15. Explain when you will give FP a chance to jump in
  16. Remind: We’re not going to focus on behavioral responses that come up; we’re going to stay focused on our Plan B
  17. Explain: RCPC will lead through litmus test questions when ready
  18. Explain: RCPC will invite FP to share concern
  19. Reframe challenges FP expresses about the kid with lagging skills
  20. Plan: Give them instructions on what to do if they hear things that are upsetting or raise questions
  21. Explain: When we collaborate, RCPC will ask FP for input, but will ask youth for ideas first
  22. Explain: RCPC will lead. FP’s job is to listen with curiosity and add in when prompted
  23. Clarify the problem to solve
  24. Explain: Litmus test questions are a good time to bring up any concerns FP has