Clarifythe adultconcernExplain: RCPCwill leadthrough litmustest questionswhen readyClarify theproblemto solveRedirectattempts tobring in Plan Aor conventionalwisdomExplainwhen youwill give FPa chance tojump inAsk: Whenwill wehave thePlan B?Beempatheticwhenpreparingwith the FPExplain:RCPC willguide theconvoPlan: Give theminstructions onwhat to do if theyhear things thatare upsetting orraise questionsRemind: Theprocess buildsskills! We don’thave to finishthe Plan BAsk: Is thereanything youwant me tolook out for?Remind:We’re goingto follow theorder of the3 ingredientsGive off“We gotthis!”vibesExplain: Whenwe collaborate,RCPC will askFP for input, butwill ask youthfor ideas firstRemind: We’re notgoing to focus onbehavioral responsesthat come up; we’regoing to stay focusedon our Plan BProvidereassuranceto the FPExplain:RCPC willinvite FP toshareconcernAsk: Whatchallenges doyou think willcome up duringthe convo?Reframechallenges FPexpressesabout the kidwith laggingskillsDiscusseducatedguessesExplain: RCPCwill lead. FP’sjob is to listenwith curiosityand add inwhen promptedAsk: Whatwill we bedoing whileyou’re havingthe Plan B?Plan: Whatsupports mightthe youth needduring the PlanB?Explain: Litmustest questionsare a good timeto bring up anyconcerns FPhasClarifythe adultconcernExplain: RCPCwill leadthrough litmustest questionswhen readyClarify theproblemto solveRedirectattempts tobring in Plan Aor conventionalwisdomExplainwhen youwill give FPa chance tojump inAsk: Whenwill wehave thePlan B?Beempatheticwhenpreparingwith the FPExplain:RCPC willguide theconvoPlan: Give theminstructions onwhat to do if theyhear things thatare upsetting orraise questionsRemind: Theprocess buildsskills! We don’thave to finishthe Plan BAsk: Is thereanything youwant me tolook out for?Remind:We’re goingto follow theorder of the3 ingredientsGive off“We gotthis!”vibesExplain: Whenwe collaborate,RCPC will askFP for input, butwill ask youthfor ideas firstRemind: We’re notgoing to focus onbehavioral responsesthat come up; we’regoing to stay focusedon our Plan BProvidereassuranceto the FPExplain:RCPC willinvite FP toshareconcernAsk: Whatchallenges doyou think willcome up duringthe convo?Reframechallenges FPexpressesabout the kidwith laggingskillsDiscusseducatedguessesExplain: RCPCwill lead. FP’sjob is to listenwith curiosityand add inwhen promptedAsk: Whatwill we bedoing whileyou’re havingthe Plan B?Plan: Whatsupports mightthe youth needduring the PlanB?Explain: Litmustest questionsare a good timeto bring up anyconcerns FPhas

Preparing to Lead a Plan B with a Foster Parent - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Clarify the adult concern
  2. Explain: RCPC will lead through litmus test questions when ready
  3. Clarify the problem to solve
  4. Redirect attempts to bring in Plan A or conventional wisdom
  5. Explain when you will give FP a chance to jump in
  6. Ask: When will we have the Plan B?
  7. Be empathetic when preparing with the FP
  8. Explain: RCPC will guide the convo
  9. Plan: Give them instructions on what to do if they hear things that are upsetting or raise questions
  10. Remind: The process builds skills! We don’t have to finish the Plan B
  11. Ask: Is there anything you want me to look out for?
  12. Remind: We’re going to follow the order of the 3 ingredients
  13. Give off “We got this!” vibes
  14. Explain: When we collaborate, RCPC will ask FP for input, but will ask youth for ideas first
  15. Remind: We’re not going to focus on behavioral responses that come up; we’re going to stay focused on our Plan B
  16. Provide reassurance to the FP
  17. Explain: RCPC will invite FP to share concern
  18. Ask: What challenges do you think will come up during the convo?
  19. Reframe challenges FP expresses about the kid with lagging skills
  20. Discuss educated guesses
  21. Explain: RCPC will lead. FP’s job is to listen with curiosity and add in when prompted
  22. Ask: What will we be doing while you’re having the Plan B?
  23. Plan: What supports might the youth need during the Plan B?
  24. Explain: Litmus test questions are a good time to bring up any concerns FP has