Ask: Is thereanything youwant me tolook out for?Explain:RCPC willinvite FP toshareconcernDiscusseducatedguessesBeempatheticwhenpreparingwith the FPExplain: RCPCwill lead. FP’sjob is to listenwith curiosityand add inwhen promptedExplain:RCPC willguide theconvoAsk: Whatchallenges doyou think willcome up duringthe convo?Explain: Whenwe collaborate,RCPC will askFP for input, butwill ask youthfor ideas firstGive off“We gotthis!”vibesExplainwhen youwill give FPa chance tojump inPlan: Whatsupports mightthe youth needduring the PlanB?Explain: Litmustest questionsare a good timeto bring up anyconcerns FPhasRemind: We’re notgoing to focus onbehavioral responsesthat come up; we’regoing to stay focusedon our Plan BRemind:We’re goingto follow theorder of the3 ingredientsAsk: Whatwill we bedoing whileyou’re havingthe Plan B?Reframechallenges FPexpressesabout the kidwith laggingskillsProvidereassuranceto the FPClarifythe adultconcernAsk: Whenwill wehave thePlan B?Remind: Theprocess buildsskills! We don’thave to finishthe Plan BExplain: RCPCwill leadthrough litmustest questionswhen readyRedirectattempts tobring in Plan Aor conventionalwisdomClarify theproblemto solvePlan: Give theminstructions onwhat to do if theyhear things thatare upsetting orraise questionsAsk: Is thereanything youwant me tolook out for?Explain:RCPC willinvite FP toshareconcernDiscusseducatedguessesBeempatheticwhenpreparingwith the FPExplain: RCPCwill lead. FP’sjob is to listenwith curiosityand add inwhen promptedExplain:RCPC willguide theconvoAsk: Whatchallenges doyou think willcome up duringthe convo?Explain: Whenwe collaborate,RCPC will askFP for input, butwill ask youthfor ideas firstGive off“We gotthis!”vibesExplainwhen youwill give FPa chance tojump inPlan: Whatsupports mightthe youth needduring the PlanB?Explain: Litmustest questionsare a good timeto bring up anyconcerns FPhasRemind: We’re notgoing to focus onbehavioral responsesthat come up; we’regoing to stay focusedon our Plan BRemind:We’re goingto follow theorder of the3 ingredientsAsk: Whatwill we bedoing whileyou’re havingthe Plan B?Reframechallenges FPexpressesabout the kidwith laggingskillsProvidereassuranceto the FPClarifythe adultconcernAsk: Whenwill wehave thePlan B?Remind: Theprocess buildsskills! We don’thave to finishthe Plan BExplain: RCPCwill leadthrough litmustest questionswhen readyRedirectattempts tobring in Plan Aor conventionalwisdomClarify theproblemto solvePlan: Give theminstructions onwhat to do if theyhear things thatare upsetting orraise questions

Preparing to Lead a Plan B with a Foster Parent - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Ask: Is there anything you want me to look out for?
  2. Explain: RCPC will invite FP to share concern
  3. Discuss educated guesses
  4. Be empathetic when preparing with the FP
  5. Explain: RCPC will lead. FP’s job is to listen with curiosity and add in when prompted
  6. Explain: RCPC will guide the convo
  7. Ask: What challenges do you think will come up during the convo?
  8. Explain: When we collaborate, RCPC will ask FP for input, but will ask youth for ideas first
  9. Give off “We got this!” vibes
  10. Explain when you will give FP a chance to jump in
  11. Plan: What supports might the youth need during the Plan B?
  12. Explain: Litmus test questions are a good time to bring up any concerns FP has
  13. Remind: We’re not going to focus on behavioral responses that come up; we’re going to stay focused on our Plan B
  14. Remind: We’re going to follow the order of the 3 ingredients
  15. Ask: What will we be doing while you’re having the Plan B?
  16. Reframe challenges FP expresses about the kid with lagging skills
  17. Provide reassurance to the FP
  18. Clarify the adult concern
  19. Ask: When will we have the Plan B?
  20. Remind: The process builds skills! We don’t have to finish the Plan B
  21. Explain: RCPC will lead through litmus test questions when ready
  22. Redirect attempts to bring in Plan A or conventional wisdom
  23. Clarify the problem to solve
  24. Plan: Give them instructions on what to do if they hear things that are upsetting or raise questions