Explainwhen youwill give FPa chance tojump inExplain: RCPCwill lead. FP’sjob is to listenwith curiosityand add inwhen promptedPlan: Give theminstructions onwhat to do if theyhear things thatare upsetting orraise questionsExplain: RCPCwill leadthrough litmustest questionswhen readyReframechallenges FPexpressesabout the kidwith laggingskillsExplain: Whenwe collaborate,RCPC will askFP for input, butwill ask youthfor ideas firstAsk: Whatwill we bedoing whileyou’re havingthe Plan B?Providereassuranceto the FPAsk: Is thereanything youwant me tolook out for?Explain: Litmustest questionsare a good timeto bring up anyconcerns FPhasDiscusseducatedguessesBeempatheticwhenpreparingwith the FPRemind: We’re notgoing to focus onbehavioral responsesthat come up; we’regoing to stay focusedon our Plan BExplain:RCPC willinvite FP toshareconcernRemind:We’re goingto follow theorder of the3 ingredientsRedirectattempts tobring in Plan Aor conventionalwisdomPlan: Whatsupports mightthe youth needduring the PlanB?Clarify theproblemto solveExplain:RCPC willguide theconvoGive off“We gotthis!”vibesAsk: Whatchallenges doyou think willcome up duringthe convo?Remind: Theprocess buildsskills! We don’thave to finishthe Plan BClarifythe adultconcernAsk: Whenwill wehave thePlan B?Explainwhen youwill give FPa chance tojump inExplain: RCPCwill lead. FP’sjob is to listenwith curiosityand add inwhen promptedPlan: Give theminstructions onwhat to do if theyhear things thatare upsetting orraise questionsExplain: RCPCwill leadthrough litmustest questionswhen readyReframechallenges FPexpressesabout the kidwith laggingskillsExplain: Whenwe collaborate,RCPC will askFP for input, butwill ask youthfor ideas firstAsk: Whatwill we bedoing whileyou’re havingthe Plan B?Providereassuranceto the FPAsk: Is thereanything youwant me tolook out for?Explain: Litmustest questionsare a good timeto bring up anyconcerns FPhasDiscusseducatedguessesBeempatheticwhenpreparingwith the FPRemind: We’re notgoing to focus onbehavioral responsesthat come up; we’regoing to stay focusedon our Plan BExplain:RCPC willinvite FP toshareconcernRemind:We’re goingto follow theorder of the3 ingredientsRedirectattempts tobring in Plan Aor conventionalwisdomPlan: Whatsupports mightthe youth needduring the PlanB?Clarify theproblemto solveExplain:RCPC willguide theconvoGive off“We gotthis!”vibesAsk: Whatchallenges doyou think willcome up duringthe convo?Remind: Theprocess buildsskills! We don’thave to finishthe Plan BClarifythe adultconcernAsk: Whenwill wehave thePlan B?

Preparing to Lead a Plan B with a Foster Parent - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Explain when you will give FP a chance to jump in
  2. Explain: RCPC will lead. FP’s job is to listen with curiosity and add in when prompted
  3. Plan: Give them instructions on what to do if they hear things that are upsetting or raise questions
  4. Explain: RCPC will lead through litmus test questions when ready
  5. Reframe challenges FP expresses about the kid with lagging skills
  6. Explain: When we collaborate, RCPC will ask FP for input, but will ask youth for ideas first
  7. Ask: What will we be doing while you’re having the Plan B?
  8. Provide reassurance to the FP
  9. Ask: Is there anything you want me to look out for?
  10. Explain: Litmus test questions are a good time to bring up any concerns FP has
  11. Discuss educated guesses
  12. Be empathetic when preparing with the FP
  13. Remind: We’re not going to focus on behavioral responses that come up; we’re going to stay focused on our Plan B
  14. Explain: RCPC will invite FP to share concern
  15. Remind: We’re going to follow the order of the 3 ingredients
  16. Redirect attempts to bring in Plan A or conventional wisdom
  17. Plan: What supports might the youth need during the Plan B?
  18. Clarify the problem to solve
  19. Explain: RCPC will guide the convo
  20. Give off “We got this!” vibes
  21. Ask: What challenges do you think will come up during the convo?
  22. Remind: The process builds skills! We don’t have to finish the Plan B
  23. Clarify the adult concern
  24. Ask: When will we have the Plan B?