Give off“We gotthis!”vibesExplain:RCPC willguide theconvoExplain: RCPCwill leadthrough litmustest questionswhen readyRedirectattempts tobring in Plan Aor conventionalwisdomBeempatheticwhenpreparingwith the FPExplain:RCPC willinvite FP toshareconcernRemind: We’re notgoing to focus onbehavioral responsesthat come up; we’regoing to stay focusedon our Plan BAsk: Whatchallenges doyou think willcome up duringthe convo?Providereassuranceto the FPPlan: Whatsupports mightthe youth needduring the PlanB?Reframechallenges FPexpressesabout the kidwith laggingskillsClarify theproblemto solvePlan: Give theminstructions onwhat to do if theyhear things thatare upsetting orraise questionsExplain: RCPCwill lead. FP’sjob is to listenwith curiosityand add inwhen promptedExplain: Litmustest questionsare a good timeto bring up anyconcerns FPhasRemind: Theprocess buildsskills! We don’thave to finishthe Plan BAsk: Is thereanything youwant me tolook out for?Explain: Whenwe collaborate,RCPC will askFP for input, butwill ask youthfor ideas firstExplainwhen youwill give FPa chance tojump inAsk: Whenwill wehave thePlan B?DiscusseducatedguessesRemind:We’re goingto follow theorder of the3 ingredientsAsk: Whatwill we bedoing whileyou’re havingthe Plan B?Clarifythe adultconcernGive off“We gotthis!”vibesExplain:RCPC willguide theconvoExplain: RCPCwill leadthrough litmustest questionswhen readyRedirectattempts tobring in Plan Aor conventionalwisdomBeempatheticwhenpreparingwith the FPExplain:RCPC willinvite FP toshareconcernRemind: We’re notgoing to focus onbehavioral responsesthat come up; we’regoing to stay focusedon our Plan BAsk: Whatchallenges doyou think willcome up duringthe convo?Providereassuranceto the FPPlan: Whatsupports mightthe youth needduring the PlanB?Reframechallenges FPexpressesabout the kidwith laggingskillsClarify theproblemto solvePlan: Give theminstructions onwhat to do if theyhear things thatare upsetting orraise questionsExplain: RCPCwill lead. FP’sjob is to listenwith curiosityand add inwhen promptedExplain: Litmustest questionsare a good timeto bring up anyconcerns FPhasRemind: Theprocess buildsskills! We don’thave to finishthe Plan BAsk: Is thereanything youwant me tolook out for?Explain: Whenwe collaborate,RCPC will askFP for input, butwill ask youthfor ideas firstExplainwhen youwill give FPa chance tojump inAsk: Whenwill wehave thePlan B?DiscusseducatedguessesRemind:We’re goingto follow theorder of the3 ingredientsAsk: Whatwill we bedoing whileyou’re havingthe Plan B?Clarifythe adultconcern

Preparing to Lead a Plan B with a Foster Parent - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Give off “We got this!” vibes
  2. Explain: RCPC will guide the convo
  3. Explain: RCPC will lead through litmus test questions when ready
  4. Redirect attempts to bring in Plan A or conventional wisdom
  5. Be empathetic when preparing with the FP
  6. Explain: RCPC will invite FP to share concern
  7. Remind: We’re not going to focus on behavioral responses that come up; we’re going to stay focused on our Plan B
  8. Ask: What challenges do you think will come up during the convo?
  9. Provide reassurance to the FP
  10. Plan: What supports might the youth need during the Plan B?
  11. Reframe challenges FP expresses about the kid with lagging skills
  12. Clarify the problem to solve
  13. Plan: Give them instructions on what to do if they hear things that are upsetting or raise questions
  14. Explain: RCPC will lead. FP’s job is to listen with curiosity and add in when prompted
  15. Explain: Litmus test questions are a good time to bring up any concerns FP has
  16. Remind: The process builds skills! We don’t have to finish the Plan B
  17. Ask: Is there anything you want me to look out for?
  18. Explain: When we collaborate, RCPC will ask FP for input, but will ask youth for ideas first
  19. Explain when you will give FP a chance to jump in
  20. Ask: When will we have the Plan B?
  21. Discuss educated guesses
  22. Remind: We’re going to follow the order of the 3 ingredients
  23. Ask: What will we be doing while you’re having the Plan B?
  24. Clarify the adult concern