Ask: Is thereanything youwant me tolook out for?Explain: RCPCwill leadthrough litmustest questionswhen readyExplain: Litmustest questionsare a good timeto bring up anyconcerns FPhasClarifythe adultconcernRedirectattempts tobring in Plan Aor conventionalwisdomAsk: Whatwill we bedoing whileyou’re havingthe Plan B?Beempatheticwhenpreparingwith the FPExplainwhen youwill give FPa chance tojump inRemind: Theprocess buildsskills! We don’thave to finishthe Plan BDiscusseducatedguessesExplain:RCPC willinvite FP toshareconcernGive off“We gotthis!”vibesPlan: Give theminstructions onwhat to do if theyhear things thatare upsetting orraise questionsProvidereassuranceto the FPClarify theproblemto solveExplain: RCPCwill lead. FP’sjob is to listenwith curiosityand add inwhen promptedExplain: Whenwe collaborate,RCPC will askFP for input, butwill ask youthfor ideas firstPlan: Whatsupports mightthe youth needduring the PlanB?Ask: Whenwill wehave thePlan B?Remind: We’re notgoing to focus onbehavioral responsesthat come up; we’regoing to stay focusedon our Plan BRemind:We’re goingto follow theorder of the3 ingredientsReframechallenges FPexpressesabout the kidwith laggingskillsAsk: Whatchallenges doyou think willcome up duringthe convo?Explain:RCPC willguide theconvoAsk: Is thereanything youwant me tolook out for?Explain: RCPCwill leadthrough litmustest questionswhen readyExplain: Litmustest questionsare a good timeto bring up anyconcerns FPhasClarifythe adultconcernRedirectattempts tobring in Plan Aor conventionalwisdomAsk: Whatwill we bedoing whileyou’re havingthe Plan B?Beempatheticwhenpreparingwith the FPExplainwhen youwill give FPa chance tojump inRemind: Theprocess buildsskills! We don’thave to finishthe Plan BDiscusseducatedguessesExplain:RCPC willinvite FP toshareconcernGive off“We gotthis!”vibesPlan: Give theminstructions onwhat to do if theyhear things thatare upsetting orraise questionsProvidereassuranceto the FPClarify theproblemto solveExplain: RCPCwill lead. FP’sjob is to listenwith curiosityand add inwhen promptedExplain: Whenwe collaborate,RCPC will askFP for input, butwill ask youthfor ideas firstPlan: Whatsupports mightthe youth needduring the PlanB?Ask: Whenwill wehave thePlan B?Remind: We’re notgoing to focus onbehavioral responsesthat come up; we’regoing to stay focusedon our Plan BRemind:We’re goingto follow theorder of the3 ingredientsReframechallenges FPexpressesabout the kidwith laggingskillsAsk: Whatchallenges doyou think willcome up duringthe convo?Explain:RCPC willguide theconvo

Preparing to Lead a Plan B with a Foster Parent - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Ask: Is there anything you want me to look out for?
  2. Explain: RCPC will lead through litmus test questions when ready
  3. Explain: Litmus test questions are a good time to bring up any concerns FP has
  4. Clarify the adult concern
  5. Redirect attempts to bring in Plan A or conventional wisdom
  6. Ask: What will we be doing while you’re having the Plan B?
  7. Be empathetic when preparing with the FP
  8. Explain when you will give FP a chance to jump in
  9. Remind: The process builds skills! We don’t have to finish the Plan B
  10. Discuss educated guesses
  11. Explain: RCPC will invite FP to share concern
  12. Give off “We got this!” vibes
  13. Plan: Give them instructions on what to do if they hear things that are upsetting or raise questions
  14. Provide reassurance to the FP
  15. Clarify the problem to solve
  16. Explain: RCPC will lead. FP’s job is to listen with curiosity and add in when prompted
  17. Explain: When we collaborate, RCPC will ask FP for input, but will ask youth for ideas first
  18. Plan: What supports might the youth need during the Plan B?
  19. Ask: When will we have the Plan B?
  20. Remind: We’re not going to focus on behavioral responses that come up; we’re going to stay focused on our Plan B
  21. Remind: We’re going to follow the order of the 3 ingredients
  22. Reframe challenges FP expresses about the kid with lagging skills
  23. Ask: What challenges do you think will come up during the convo?
  24. Explain: RCPC will guide the convo