Ask: Is thereanything youwant me tolook out for?Explain: Litmustest questionsare a good timeto bring up anyconcerns FPhasExplain: RCPCwill lead. FP’sjob is to listenwith curiosityand add inwhen promptedPlan: Give theminstructions onwhat to do if theyhear things thatare upsetting orraise questionsExplain:RCPC willinvite FP toshareconcernDiscusseducatedguessesBeempatheticwhenpreparingwith the FPPlan: Whatsupports mightthe youth needduring the PlanB?Clarify theproblemto solveReframechallenges FPexpressesabout the kidwith laggingskillsRemind: Theprocess buildsskills! We don’thave to finishthe Plan BExplainwhen youwill give FPa chance tojump inRemind: We’re notgoing to focus onbehavioral responsesthat come up; we’regoing to stay focusedon our Plan BExplain:RCPC willguide theconvoClarifythe adultconcernGive off“We gotthis!”vibesExplain: Whenwe collaborate,RCPC will askFP for input, butwill ask youthfor ideas firstRedirectattempts tobring in Plan Aor conventionalwisdomAsk: Whatwill we bedoing whileyou’re havingthe Plan B?Explain: RCPCwill leadthrough litmustest questionswhen readyRemind:We’re goingto follow theorder of the3 ingredientsAsk: Whatchallenges doyou think willcome up duringthe convo?Ask: Whenwill wehave thePlan B?Providereassuranceto the FPAsk: Is thereanything youwant me tolook out for?Explain: Litmustest questionsare a good timeto bring up anyconcerns FPhasExplain: RCPCwill lead. FP’sjob is to listenwith curiosityand add inwhen promptedPlan: Give theminstructions onwhat to do if theyhear things thatare upsetting orraise questionsExplain:RCPC willinvite FP toshareconcernDiscusseducatedguessesBeempatheticwhenpreparingwith the FPPlan: Whatsupports mightthe youth needduring the PlanB?Clarify theproblemto solveReframechallenges FPexpressesabout the kidwith laggingskillsRemind: Theprocess buildsskills! We don’thave to finishthe Plan BExplainwhen youwill give FPa chance tojump inRemind: We’re notgoing to focus onbehavioral responsesthat come up; we’regoing to stay focusedon our Plan BExplain:RCPC willguide theconvoClarifythe adultconcernGive off“We gotthis!”vibesExplain: Whenwe collaborate,RCPC will askFP for input, butwill ask youthfor ideas firstRedirectattempts tobring in Plan Aor conventionalwisdomAsk: Whatwill we bedoing whileyou’re havingthe Plan B?Explain: RCPCwill leadthrough litmustest questionswhen readyRemind:We’re goingto follow theorder of the3 ingredientsAsk: Whatchallenges doyou think willcome up duringthe convo?Ask: Whenwill wehave thePlan B?Providereassuranceto the FP

Preparing to Lead a Plan B with a Foster Parent - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Ask: Is there anything you want me to look out for?
  2. Explain: Litmus test questions are a good time to bring up any concerns FP has
  3. Explain: RCPC will lead. FP’s job is to listen with curiosity and add in when prompted
  4. Plan: Give them instructions on what to do if they hear things that are upsetting or raise questions
  5. Explain: RCPC will invite FP to share concern
  6. Discuss educated guesses
  7. Be empathetic when preparing with the FP
  8. Plan: What supports might the youth need during the Plan B?
  9. Clarify the problem to solve
  10. Reframe challenges FP expresses about the kid with lagging skills
  11. Remind: The process builds skills! We don’t have to finish the Plan B
  12. Explain when you will give FP a chance to jump in
  13. Remind: We’re not going to focus on behavioral responses that come up; we’re going to stay focused on our Plan B
  14. Explain: RCPC will guide the convo
  15. Clarify the adult concern
  16. Give off “We got this!” vibes
  17. Explain: When we collaborate, RCPC will ask FP for input, but will ask youth for ideas first
  18. Redirect attempts to bring in Plan A or conventional wisdom
  19. Ask: What will we be doing while you’re having the Plan B?
  20. Explain: RCPC will lead through litmus test questions when ready
  21. Remind: We’re going to follow the order of the 3 ingredients
  22. Ask: What challenges do you think will come up during the convo?
  23. Ask: When will we have the Plan B?
  24. Provide reassurance to the FP