Give off“We gotthis!”vibesPlan: Give theminstructions onwhat to do if theyhear things thatare upsetting orraise questionsExplain: RCPCwill leadthrough litmustest questionswhen readyAsk: Whenwill wehave thePlan B?Explain:RCPC willinvite FP toshareconcernProvidereassuranceto the FPRemind: We’re notgoing to focus onbehavioral responsesthat come up; we’regoing to stay focusedon our Plan BAsk: Is thereanything youwant me tolook out for?Reframechallenges FPexpressesabout the kidwith laggingskillsExplain:RCPC willguide theconvoDiscusseducatedguessesExplain: Whenwe collaborate,RCPC will askFP for input, butwill ask youthfor ideas firstRemind: Theprocess buildsskills! We don’thave to finishthe Plan BClarify theproblemto solveRedirectattempts tobring in Plan Aor conventionalwisdomRemind:We’re goingto follow theorder of the3 ingredientsExplain: Litmustest questionsare a good timeto bring up anyconcerns FPhasAsk: Whatwill we bedoing whileyou’re havingthe Plan B?Ask: Whatchallenges doyou think willcome up duringthe convo?Explainwhen youwill give FPa chance tojump inPlan: Whatsupports mightthe youth needduring the PlanB?Beempatheticwhenpreparingwith the FPClarifythe adultconcernExplain: RCPCwill lead. FP’sjob is to listenwith curiosityand add inwhen promptedGive off“We gotthis!”vibesPlan: Give theminstructions onwhat to do if theyhear things thatare upsetting orraise questionsExplain: RCPCwill leadthrough litmustest questionswhen readyAsk: Whenwill wehave thePlan B?Explain:RCPC willinvite FP toshareconcernProvidereassuranceto the FPRemind: We’re notgoing to focus onbehavioral responsesthat come up; we’regoing to stay focusedon our Plan BAsk: Is thereanything youwant me tolook out for?Reframechallenges FPexpressesabout the kidwith laggingskillsExplain:RCPC willguide theconvoDiscusseducatedguessesExplain: Whenwe collaborate,RCPC will askFP for input, butwill ask youthfor ideas firstRemind: Theprocess buildsskills! We don’thave to finishthe Plan BClarify theproblemto solveRedirectattempts tobring in Plan Aor conventionalwisdomRemind:We’re goingto follow theorder of the3 ingredientsExplain: Litmustest questionsare a good timeto bring up anyconcerns FPhasAsk: Whatwill we bedoing whileyou’re havingthe Plan B?Ask: Whatchallenges doyou think willcome up duringthe convo?Explainwhen youwill give FPa chance tojump inPlan: Whatsupports mightthe youth needduring the PlanB?Beempatheticwhenpreparingwith the FPClarifythe adultconcernExplain: RCPCwill lead. FP’sjob is to listenwith curiosityand add inwhen prompted

Preparing to Lead a Plan B with a Foster Parent - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Give off “We got this!” vibes
  2. Plan: Give them instructions on what to do if they hear things that are upsetting or raise questions
  3. Explain: RCPC will lead through litmus test questions when ready
  4. Ask: When will we have the Plan B?
  5. Explain: RCPC will invite FP to share concern
  6. Provide reassurance to the FP
  7. Remind: We’re not going to focus on behavioral responses that come up; we’re going to stay focused on our Plan B
  8. Ask: Is there anything you want me to look out for?
  9. Reframe challenges FP expresses about the kid with lagging skills
  10. Explain: RCPC will guide the convo
  11. Discuss educated guesses
  12. Explain: When we collaborate, RCPC will ask FP for input, but will ask youth for ideas first
  13. Remind: The process builds skills! We don’t have to finish the Plan B
  14. Clarify the problem to solve
  15. Redirect attempts to bring in Plan A or conventional wisdom
  16. Remind: We’re going to follow the order of the 3 ingredients
  17. Explain: Litmus test questions are a good time to bring up any concerns FP has
  18. Ask: What will we be doing while you’re having the Plan B?
  19. Ask: What challenges do you think will come up during the convo?
  20. Explain when you will give FP a chance to jump in
  21. Plan: What supports might the youth need during the Plan B?
  22. Be empathetic when preparing with the FP
  23. Clarify the adult concern
  24. Explain: RCPC will lead. FP’s job is to listen with curiosity and add in when prompted