Tooktime toyourselfAnsweredthe question"How areyou?"honestlyDid someform ofact of selfcareExpressed apreferenceof where toeatPositiveFeedbackSpent timethinkingabout yourown goalsLimitingValidationWasdirect withwhat youwantedVocallydisagreedwithsomeone'sopinionStartsmallSaid "No"for a betterlong termoutcomeDid notadd fillerwordsLet yourselffeel sad infront of aloved oneSelfSoothedwhen youfelt anxiousAsserted aboundary witha differenttone thanyou'd likeFeltaccomplishedafter setting aboundarySent backanincorrectorderSpent timewith someonewithout tryingto fixsomethingAdvocatedfor yourselfduring adoctor visitExpressedhurt ifsomeone saidsomethingthat hurt youPositiveSelfTalkConsequencesof PeoplePleasingStoodup to abullyMaintained aboundaryeven whenyou feltnervousSaid "No"without anexplanationCorrectedsomeonewho saidyour namewrongFelt the needto stay in arelationshipthat drainedmeCompromisingvaluesDelayyourresponseUnconditionalLoveTooktime toyourselfAnsweredthe question"How areyou?"honestlyDid someform ofact of selfcareExpressed apreferenceof where toeatPositiveFeedbackSpent timethinkingabout yourown goalsLimitingValidationWasdirect withwhat youwantedVocallydisagreedwithsomeone'sopinionStartsmallSaid "No"for a betterlong termoutcomeDid notadd fillerwordsLet yourselffeel sad infront of aloved oneSelfSoothedwhen youfelt anxiousAsserted aboundary witha differenttone thanyou'd likeFeltaccomplishedafter setting aboundarySent backanincorrectorderSpent timewith someonewithout tryingto fixsomethingAdvocatedfor yourselfduring adoctor visitExpressedhurt ifsomeone saidsomethingthat hurt youPositiveSelfTalkConsequencesof PeoplePleasingStoodup to abullyMaintained aboundaryeven whenyou feltnervousSaid "No"without anexplanationCorrectedsomeonewho saidyour namewrongFelt the needto stay in arelationshipthat drainedmeCompromisingvaluesDelayyourresponseUnconditionalLove

Boundary Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Took time to yourself
  2. Answered the question "How are you?" honestly
  3. Did some form of act of self care
  4. Expressed a preference of where to eat
  5. Positive Feedback
  6. Spent time thinking about your own goals
  7. Limiting Validation
  8. Was direct with what you wanted
  9. Vocally disagreed with someone's opinion
  10. Start small
  11. Said "No" for a better long term outcome
  12. Did not add filler words
  13. Let yourself feel sad in front of a loved one
  14. Self Soothed when you felt anxious
  15. Asserted a boundary with a different tone than you'd like
  16. Felt accomplished after setting a boundary
  17. Sent back an incorrect order
  18. Spent time with someone without trying to fix something
  19. Advocated for yourself during a doctor visit
  20. Expressed hurt if someone said something that hurt you
  21. Positive Self Talk
  22. Consequences of People Pleasing
  23. Stood up to a bully
  24. Maintained a boundary even when you felt nervous
  25. Said "No" without an explanation
  26. Corrected someone who said your name wrong
  27. Felt the need to stay in a relationship that drained me
  28. Compromising values
  29. Delay your response
  30. Unconditional Love