UnconditionalLoveCompromisingvaluesDid someform ofact of selfcareVocallydisagreedwithsomeone'sopinionSaid "No"without anexplanationDelayyourresponseTooktime toyourselfSpent timewith someonewithout tryingto fixsomethingStoodup to abullySaid "No"for a betterlong termoutcomeSelfSoothedwhen youfelt anxiousSent backanincorrectorderMaintained aboundaryeven whenyou feltnervousFeltaccomplishedafter setting aboundaryExpressedhurt ifsomeone saidsomethingthat hurt youAsserted aboundary witha differenttone thanyou'd likePositiveFeedbackDid notadd fillerwordsLet yourselffeel sad infront of aloved onePositiveSelfTalkSpent timethinkingabout yourown goalsConsequencesof PeoplePleasingCorrectedsomeonewho saidyour namewrongWasdirect withwhat youwantedAnsweredthe question"How areyou?"honestlyExpressed apreferenceof where toeatAdvocatedfor yourselfduring adoctor visitFelt the needto stay in arelationshipthat drainedmeStartsmallLimitingValidationUnconditionalLoveCompromisingvaluesDid someform ofact of selfcareVocallydisagreedwithsomeone'sopinionSaid "No"without anexplanationDelayyourresponseTooktime toyourselfSpent timewith someonewithout tryingto fixsomethingStoodup to abullySaid "No"for a betterlong termoutcomeSelfSoothedwhen youfelt anxiousSent backanincorrectorderMaintained aboundaryeven whenyou feltnervousFeltaccomplishedafter setting aboundaryExpressedhurt ifsomeone saidsomethingthat hurt youAsserted aboundary witha differenttone thanyou'd likePositiveFeedbackDid notadd fillerwordsLet yourselffeel sad infront of aloved onePositiveSelfTalkSpent timethinkingabout yourown goalsConsequencesof PeoplePleasingCorrectedsomeonewho saidyour namewrongWasdirect withwhat youwantedAnsweredthe question"How areyou?"honestlyExpressed apreferenceof where toeatAdvocatedfor yourselfduring adoctor visitFelt the needto stay in arelationshipthat drainedmeStartsmallLimitingValidation

Boundary Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Unconditional Love
  2. Compromising values
  3. Did some form of act of self care
  4. Vocally disagreed with someone's opinion
  5. Said "No" without an explanation
  6. Delay your response
  7. Took time to yourself
  8. Spent time with someone without trying to fix something
  9. Stood up to a bully
  10. Said "No" for a better long term outcome
  11. Self Soothed when you felt anxious
  12. Sent back an incorrect order
  13. Maintained a boundary even when you felt nervous
  14. Felt accomplished after setting a boundary
  15. Expressed hurt if someone said something that hurt you
  16. Asserted a boundary with a different tone than you'd like
  17. Positive Feedback
  18. Did not add filler words
  19. Let yourself feel sad in front of a loved one
  20. Positive Self Talk
  21. Spent time thinking about your own goals
  22. Consequences of People Pleasing
  23. Corrected someone who said your name wrong
  24. Was direct with what you wanted
  25. Answered the question "How are you?" honestly
  26. Expressed a preference of where to eat
  27. Advocated for yourself during a doctor visit
  28. Felt the need to stay in a relationship that drained me
  29. Start small
  30. Limiting Validation