Vocallydisagreedwithsomeone'sopinionAdvocatedfor yourselfduring adoctor visitUnconditionalLoveCompromisingvaluesTooktime toyourselfSelfSoothedwhen youfelt anxiousDid someform ofact of selfcareStartsmallAnsweredthe question"How areyou?"honestlyWasdirect withwhat youwantedPositiveSelfTalkLet yourselffeel sad infront of aloved oneMaintained aboundaryeven whenyou feltnervousSaid "No"for a betterlong termoutcomeSent backanincorrectorderExpressed apreferenceof where toeatSpent timewith someonewithout tryingto fixsomethingAsserted aboundary witha differenttone thanyou'd likePositiveFeedbackDelayyourresponseLimitingValidationFelt the needto stay in arelationshipthat drainedmeSaid "No"without anexplanationCorrectedsomeonewho saidyour namewrongSpent timethinkingabout yourown goalsStoodup to abullyConsequencesof PeoplePleasingDid notadd fillerwordsFeltaccomplishedafter setting aboundaryExpressedhurt ifsomeone saidsomethingthat hurt youVocallydisagreedwithsomeone'sopinionAdvocatedfor yourselfduring adoctor visitUnconditionalLoveCompromisingvaluesTooktime toyourselfSelfSoothedwhen youfelt anxiousDid someform ofact of selfcareStartsmallAnsweredthe question"How areyou?"honestlyWasdirect withwhat youwantedPositiveSelfTalkLet yourselffeel sad infront of aloved oneMaintained aboundaryeven whenyou feltnervousSaid "No"for a betterlong termoutcomeSent backanincorrectorderExpressed apreferenceof where toeatSpent timewith someonewithout tryingto fixsomethingAsserted aboundary witha differenttone thanyou'd likePositiveFeedbackDelayyourresponseLimitingValidationFelt the needto stay in arelationshipthat drainedmeSaid "No"without anexplanationCorrectedsomeonewho saidyour namewrongSpent timethinkingabout yourown goalsStoodup to abullyConsequencesof PeoplePleasingDid notadd fillerwordsFeltaccomplishedafter setting aboundaryExpressedhurt ifsomeone saidsomethingthat hurt you

Boundary Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Vocally disagreed with someone's opinion
  2. Advocated for yourself during a doctor visit
  3. Unconditional Love
  4. Compromising values
  5. Took time to yourself
  6. Self Soothed when you felt anxious
  7. Did some form of act of self care
  8. Start small
  9. Answered the question "How are you?" honestly
  10. Was direct with what you wanted
  11. Positive Self Talk
  12. Let yourself feel sad in front of a loved one
  13. Maintained a boundary even when you felt nervous
  14. Said "No" for a better long term outcome
  15. Sent back an incorrect order
  16. Expressed a preference of where to eat
  17. Spent time with someone without trying to fix something
  18. Asserted a boundary with a different tone than you'd like
  19. Positive Feedback
  20. Delay your response
  21. Limiting Validation
  22. Felt the need to stay in a relationship that drained me
  23. Said "No" without an explanation
  24. Corrected someone who said your name wrong
  25. Spent time thinking about your own goals
  26. Stood up to a bully
  27. Consequences of People Pleasing
  28. Did not add filler words
  29. Felt accomplished after setting a boundary
  30. Expressed hurt if someone said something that hurt you