PositiveFeedbackSaid "No"for a betterlong termoutcomeSpent timethinkingabout yourown goalsCompromisingvaluesDid notadd fillerwordsPositiveSelfTalkLet yourselffeel sad infront of aloved oneExpressed apreferenceof where toeatAnsweredthe question"How areyou?"honestlyAdvocatedfor yourselfduring adoctor visitDelayyourresponseSent backanincorrectorderTooktime toyourselfFeltaccomplishedafter setting aboundaryUnconditionalLoveCorrectedsomeonewho saidyour namewrongExpressedhurt ifsomeone saidsomethingthat hurt youSaid "No"without anexplanationStartsmallStoodup to abullySelfSoothedwhen youfelt anxiousConsequencesof PeoplePleasingWasdirect withwhat youwantedDid someform ofact of selfcareMaintained aboundaryeven whenyou feltnervousVocallydisagreedwithsomeone'sopinionFelt the needto stay in arelationshipthat drainedmeAsserted aboundary witha differenttone thanyou'd likeSpent timewith someonewithout tryingto fixsomethingLimitingValidationPositiveFeedbackSaid "No"for a betterlong termoutcomeSpent timethinkingabout yourown goalsCompromisingvaluesDid notadd fillerwordsPositiveSelfTalkLet yourselffeel sad infront of aloved oneExpressed apreferenceof where toeatAnsweredthe question"How areyou?"honestlyAdvocatedfor yourselfduring adoctor visitDelayyourresponseSent backanincorrectorderTooktime toyourselfFeltaccomplishedafter setting aboundaryUnconditionalLoveCorrectedsomeonewho saidyour namewrongExpressedhurt ifsomeone saidsomethingthat hurt youSaid "No"without anexplanationStartsmallStoodup to abullySelfSoothedwhen youfelt anxiousConsequencesof PeoplePleasingWasdirect withwhat youwantedDid someform ofact of selfcareMaintained aboundaryeven whenyou feltnervousVocallydisagreedwithsomeone'sopinionFelt the needto stay in arelationshipthat drainedmeAsserted aboundary witha differenttone thanyou'd likeSpent timewith someonewithout tryingto fixsomethingLimitingValidation

Boundary Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Positive Feedback
  2. Said "No" for a better long term outcome
  3. Spent time thinking about your own goals
  4. Compromising values
  5. Did not add filler words
  6. Positive Self Talk
  7. Let yourself feel sad in front of a loved one
  8. Expressed a preference of where to eat
  9. Answered the question "How are you?" honestly
  10. Advocated for yourself during a doctor visit
  11. Delay your response
  12. Sent back an incorrect order
  13. Took time to yourself
  14. Felt accomplished after setting a boundary
  15. Unconditional Love
  16. Corrected someone who said your name wrong
  17. Expressed hurt if someone said something that hurt you
  18. Said "No" without an explanation
  19. Start small
  20. Stood up to a bully
  21. Self Soothed when you felt anxious
  22. Consequences of People Pleasing
  23. Was direct with what you wanted
  24. Did some form of act of self care
  25. Maintained a boundary even when you felt nervous
  26. Vocally disagreed with someone's opinion
  27. Felt the need to stay in a relationship that drained me
  28. Asserted a boundary with a different tone than you'd like
  29. Spent time with someone without trying to fix something
  30. Limiting Validation