Felt the needto stay in arelationshipthat drainedmeConsequencesof PeoplePleasingDid someform ofact of selfcareUnconditionalLoveSelfSoothedwhen youfelt anxiousExpressed apreferenceof where toeatAnsweredthe question"How areyou?"honestlySpent timewith someonewithout tryingto fixsomethingVocallydisagreedwithsomeone'sopinionDid notadd fillerwordsDelayyourresponseFeltaccomplishedafter setting aboundaryTooktime toyourselfSpent timethinkingabout yourown goalsPositiveSelfTalkLet yourselffeel sad infront of aloved oneSaid "No"for a betterlong termoutcomeWasdirect withwhat youwantedStoodup to abullyPositiveFeedbackExpressedhurt ifsomeone saidsomethingthat hurt youAdvocatedfor yourselfduring adoctor visitSent backanincorrectorderLimitingValidationAsserted aboundary witha differenttone thanyou'd likeStartsmallSaid "No"without anexplanationMaintained aboundaryeven whenyou feltnervousCorrectedsomeonewho saidyour namewrongCompromisingvaluesFelt the needto stay in arelationshipthat drainedmeConsequencesof PeoplePleasingDid someform ofact of selfcareUnconditionalLoveSelfSoothedwhen youfelt anxiousExpressed apreferenceof where toeatAnsweredthe question"How areyou?"honestlySpent timewith someonewithout tryingto fixsomethingVocallydisagreedwithsomeone'sopinionDid notadd fillerwordsDelayyourresponseFeltaccomplishedafter setting aboundaryTooktime toyourselfSpent timethinkingabout yourown goalsPositiveSelfTalkLet yourselffeel sad infront of aloved oneSaid "No"for a betterlong termoutcomeWasdirect withwhat youwantedStoodup to abullyPositiveFeedbackExpressedhurt ifsomeone saidsomethingthat hurt youAdvocatedfor yourselfduring adoctor visitSent backanincorrectorderLimitingValidationAsserted aboundary witha differenttone thanyou'd likeStartsmallSaid "No"without anexplanationMaintained aboundaryeven whenyou feltnervousCorrectedsomeonewho saidyour namewrongCompromisingvalues

Boundary Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Felt the need to stay in a relationship that drained me
  2. Consequences of People Pleasing
  3. Did some form of act of self care
  4. Unconditional Love
  5. Self Soothed when you felt anxious
  6. Expressed a preference of where to eat
  7. Answered the question "How are you?" honestly
  8. Spent time with someone without trying to fix something
  9. Vocally disagreed with someone's opinion
  10. Did not add filler words
  11. Delay your response
  12. Felt accomplished after setting a boundary
  13. Took time to yourself
  14. Spent time thinking about your own goals
  15. Positive Self Talk
  16. Let yourself feel sad in front of a loved one
  17. Said "No" for a better long term outcome
  18. Was direct with what you wanted
  19. Stood up to a bully
  20. Positive Feedback
  21. Expressed hurt if someone said something that hurt you
  22. Advocated for yourself during a doctor visit
  23. Sent back an incorrect order
  24. Limiting Validation
  25. Asserted a boundary with a different tone than you'd like
  26. Start small
  27. Said "No" without an explanation
  28. Maintained a boundary even when you felt nervous
  29. Corrected someone who said your name wrong
  30. Compromising values