Feltaccomplishedafter setting aboundarySpent timethinkingabout yourown goalsFelt the needto stay in arelationshipthat drainedmeExpressedhurt ifsomeone saidsomethingthat hurt youAnsweredthe question"How areyou?"honestlyUnconditionalLoveDid notadd fillerwordsSent backanincorrectorderConsequencesof PeoplePleasingWasdirect withwhat youwantedSpent timewith someonewithout tryingto fixsomethingTooktime toyourselfLimitingValidationSaid "No"without anexplanationSelfSoothedwhen youfelt anxiousDid someform ofact of selfcareSaid "No"for a betterlong termoutcomeMaintained aboundaryeven whenyou feltnervousLet yourselffeel sad infront of aloved onePositiveFeedbackStoodup to abullyExpressed apreferenceof where toeatDelayyourresponseCorrectedsomeonewho saidyour namewrongAsserted aboundary witha differenttone thanyou'd likeStartsmallAdvocatedfor yourselfduring adoctor visitCompromisingvaluesPositiveSelfTalkVocallydisagreedwithsomeone'sopinionFeltaccomplishedafter setting aboundarySpent timethinkingabout yourown goalsFelt the needto stay in arelationshipthat drainedmeExpressedhurt ifsomeone saidsomethingthat hurt youAnsweredthe question"How areyou?"honestlyUnconditionalLoveDid notadd fillerwordsSent backanincorrectorderConsequencesof PeoplePleasingWasdirect withwhat youwantedSpent timewith someonewithout tryingto fixsomethingTooktime toyourselfLimitingValidationSaid "No"without anexplanationSelfSoothedwhen youfelt anxiousDid someform ofact of selfcareSaid "No"for a betterlong termoutcomeMaintained aboundaryeven whenyou feltnervousLet yourselffeel sad infront of aloved onePositiveFeedbackStoodup to abullyExpressed apreferenceof where toeatDelayyourresponseCorrectedsomeonewho saidyour namewrongAsserted aboundary witha differenttone thanyou'd likeStartsmallAdvocatedfor yourselfduring adoctor visitCompromisingvaluesPositiveSelfTalkVocallydisagreedwithsomeone'sopinion

Boundary Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Felt accomplished after setting a boundary
  2. Spent time thinking about your own goals
  3. Felt the need to stay in a relationship that drained me
  4. Expressed hurt if someone said something that hurt you
  5. Answered the question "How are you?" honestly
  6. Unconditional Love
  7. Did not add filler words
  8. Sent back an incorrect order
  9. Consequences of People Pleasing
  10. Was direct with what you wanted
  11. Spent time with someone without trying to fix something
  12. Took time to yourself
  13. Limiting Validation
  14. Said "No" without an explanation
  15. Self Soothed when you felt anxious
  16. Did some form of act of self care
  17. Said "No" for a better long term outcome
  18. Maintained a boundary even when you felt nervous
  19. Let yourself feel sad in front of a loved one
  20. Positive Feedback
  21. Stood up to a bully
  22. Expressed a preference of where to eat
  23. Delay your response
  24. Corrected someone who said your name wrong
  25. Asserted a boundary with a different tone than you'd like
  26. Start small
  27. Advocated for yourself during a doctor visit
  28. Compromising values
  29. Positive Self Talk
  30. Vocally disagreed with someone's opinion