Expressed apreferenceof where toeatMaintained aboundaryeven whenyou feltnervousFelt the needto stay in arelationshipthat drainedmeDid someform ofact of selfcareTooktime toyourselfStartsmallAdvocatedfor yourselfduring adoctor visitCompromisingvaluesSpent timewith someonewithout tryingto fixsomethingConsequencesof PeoplePleasingPositiveFeedbackExpressedhurt ifsomeone saidsomethingthat hurt youSaid "No"for a betterlong termoutcomeStoodup to abullyCorrectedsomeonewho saidyour namewrongLet yourselffeel sad infront of aloved oneAsserted aboundary witha differenttone thanyou'd likeFeltaccomplishedafter setting aboundarySaid "No"without anexplanationPositiveSelfTalkSent backanincorrectorderSpent timethinkingabout yourown goalsDid notadd fillerwordsSelfSoothedwhen youfelt anxiousUnconditionalLoveVocallydisagreedwithsomeone'sopinionWasdirect withwhat youwantedLimitingValidationDelayyourresponseAnsweredthe question"How areyou?"honestlyExpressed apreferenceof where toeatMaintained aboundaryeven whenyou feltnervousFelt the needto stay in arelationshipthat drainedmeDid someform ofact of selfcareTooktime toyourselfStartsmallAdvocatedfor yourselfduring adoctor visitCompromisingvaluesSpent timewith someonewithout tryingto fixsomethingConsequencesof PeoplePleasingPositiveFeedbackExpressedhurt ifsomeone saidsomethingthat hurt youSaid "No"for a betterlong termoutcomeStoodup to abullyCorrectedsomeonewho saidyour namewrongLet yourselffeel sad infront of aloved oneAsserted aboundary witha differenttone thanyou'd likeFeltaccomplishedafter setting aboundarySaid "No"without anexplanationPositiveSelfTalkSent backanincorrectorderSpent timethinkingabout yourown goalsDid notadd fillerwordsSelfSoothedwhen youfelt anxiousUnconditionalLoveVocallydisagreedwithsomeone'sopinionWasdirect withwhat youwantedLimitingValidationDelayyourresponseAnsweredthe question"How areyou?"honestly

Boundary Bingo - Call List

(Print) Use this randomly generated list as your call list when playing the game. There is no need to say the BINGO column name. Place some kind of mark (like an X, a checkmark, a dot, tally mark, etc) on each cell as you announce it, to keep track. You can also cut out each item, place them in a bag and pull words from the bag.


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  1. Expressed a preference of where to eat
  2. Maintained a boundary even when you felt nervous
  3. Felt the need to stay in a relationship that drained me
  4. Did some form of act of self care
  5. Took time to yourself
  6. Start small
  7. Advocated for yourself during a doctor visit
  8. Compromising values
  9. Spent time with someone without trying to fix something
  10. Consequences of People Pleasing
  11. Positive Feedback
  12. Expressed hurt if someone said something that hurt you
  13. Said "No" for a better long term outcome
  14. Stood up to a bully
  15. Corrected someone who said your name wrong
  16. Let yourself feel sad in front of a loved one
  17. Asserted a boundary with a different tone than you'd like
  18. Felt accomplished after setting a boundary
  19. Said "No" without an explanation
  20. Positive Self Talk
  21. Sent back an incorrect order
  22. Spent time thinking about your own goals
  23. Did not add filler words
  24. Self Soothed when you felt anxious
  25. Unconditional Love
  26. Vocally disagreed with someone's opinion
  27. Was direct with what you wanted
  28. Limiting Validation
  29. Delay your response
  30. Answered the question "How are you?" honestly